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怎么样做才是孝顺呢? 好烦呀`看到妈妈那爬满皱纹的脸我又伤心起来了. 每次和妈妈吵架都是为了今天的菜不好吃呀`还有妈妈做的一些事我看不下去就说了妈妈几句, 有时候都不想和妈妈吵的. 怎么样才是孝顺呀` 是不是不和父母吵架 什么事都顺着他们就是孝顺呢/ 我好迷茫呀` 我总是觉得妈妈好不讲理的' 不过我有一点可以确定的 我是爱妈妈的 她也是爱我的 我就是想知道这样做才是孝顺呀? 休 闲 居编 辑 >>>>>>>>休闲养生网回答： 我也常和母亲不和，并且自己不能先道歉。往往事情过后很恨自己。 父母的爱有时候会让我们有窒息的感觉，因为我们离得太近，并且不 曾分开过太常时间，我们这些孩子，还没有真正尝试过思念父母的滋味。妈妈很伟大的，但是都很平凡。因为她前提是人，会变老，会世俗，会心情不好，会停止不前。但是，她同样会用她深沉的爱去保护自己的孩子。 这里有一篇东西，不知道你有没有看过。 A little boy asked his mother "Why are you crying?“ 一个男孩问他的妈妈：“ 你为什么要哭呢？” "Because I'm a woman," she told him. 妈妈说：“因为我是女人啊。” "I don't understand," he said. 男孩说： “我不懂。” His mum just hugged him and said, "And you never will" 他妈妈抱起他说：“你永远不会懂得。” Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?“ 后来小男孩就问他爸爸：“妈妈为什么毫无理由的哭呢？” "All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say. “所有女人都这样。”他爸爸回答。 The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry. 小男孩长成了一个男人,但仍就不懂女人为什么哭泣. Finally he put in a call to God; and when God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily? “最后,他打电话给上帝;当上帝拿起电话时,他问道：“上帝,女人为什么那么容易哭泣呢？” God said: "When I made the woman, she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world; yet, gentle enough to give comfort" 上帝回答说:“当我创造女人时,让她很特别.我使她的肩膀能挑起整个世界的重担;并且,又柔情似水 "I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children" 我让她的内心很坚强,能够承受分娩的痛苦和忍受自己孩子多次的拒绝。 "I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining " 我赋予她耐心使她在别人放弃的时候继续坚持,并且无怨无悔的照顾自己的家人渡过疾病和疲劳。 "I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly" 我赋予她在任何情况下都会爱孩子的感情,即使她的孩子伤害了她 "I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart" 我赋予她包容她丈夫过错的坚强和用他的勒骨塑成她来保护他的心。 "I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly" 我赋予她智慧让她知道一个好丈夫是绝不会伤害他的妻子的,但有时我也会考验她支持自己丈夫的决心和坚强。 And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed." 最后,我让她可以流泪.只要她愿意。这是她所独有的。 You see: The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair." 你看,女人的漂亮不是因为她穿的衣服,她保持的体型或者她梳头的方式 "The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart , the place where love resides." 女人的漂亮必须从她的眼睛中去看,因为那是她心灵的窗户和爱居住的地方。” Every Woman is beautifull. 每个女人都美丽。 只是想让你看看这篇东西，就是这样。 怎么样才是孝顺，我觉得，天天让妈妈开心，让妈妈微笑，让妈妈看见你也开心，这，就是孝顺。 爱妈妈，像妈妈爱我们一样爱她。 注：那篇东西的出处我不记得是哪里的了，自己收藏的。 |